When we had our first baby with my wife Tamara, we couldn"t really believe our eyes and believe that it was all up to us - that we gave birth to a new human being. That is something beyond the reach of human mind. Something that is hard to imagine, just like the case of the infinity of the universe surrounding us. A normal brain of an ordinary bread eater cannot get it all in his head. That sort of things should be left to the philosophers only. I believe that having a baby is one of the best and most touching experiences that a man can go through in his life. of course, every one of us has been born and we don"t remember that. Our parents do. For them (in most cases) it was something special. It is nothing strange in the fact that parents, usually fresh and young parents want all the best for their child. It was the same about us. Even the stupid matter of something like cot bed mattress, which definitely is a secondary thing stated a really important issue at that time. It couldn"t be a normal cot bed mattress, it had to be a cot bed mattress of best quality! Of best quality cotton! Anti allergic and anti bacterial. All in one! That is a normal approach and this is the natural course of things. If it looked like that in all the families, there would be no pathology around us.